How We Do It: Shock & Aw Community Building


I love being surprised. Whether it’s an affectionate note tucked into my car window before I leave for work or a friendly email out of the blue, surprises give me tingles. And I’m not alone. If Hallmark has tried to sell us on anything it’s that people remember those unexpected, almost vomit-worthy gestures. So much of our life is spent on auto pilot that it’s nice when someone pushes us out of it. And that applies to the Web, just as much as it does in your real life. It’s the little interactions that can make all the difference in helping someone to feel valued, heard or part of something larger.

You’d probably like a few examples?

These are all relatively small gestures that got attention because they came at a time when the recipient wasn’t expecting them. And because of that, they were remembered.

At Outspoken Media, we’re all about little gestures. I thought today we’d share just one example of how we try to use Shock & Aw in our community. It also happens to be my favorite.

If you’ve ever left a comment on Outspoken Media you’ve seen our Thanks For Commenting page. The page is pretty simple. We used Joost de Valk’s Comment Redirect plugin to redirect new commenters to a hidden page on Outspoken. We use this page to thank new commenters for becoming part of our community, formally invite them to keep hanging out with us, and then offer some more social ways to stay in touch with Outspoken on the Web. So what, right? It’s just a page. Probably nothing special to users.

Well, if you think that, you’d be wrong.

[These are mostly older examples because Twitter Search took the morning off. Dear Twitter Search, please fix yourself before I wreck yourself.]

Every week I receive tweets/emails/new blog comments from new community members who love that page. They love it because they weren’t expecting it and because it’s warm. Usually when you leave your first comment on a new blog, nothing happens. Maybe you’re taken to a page that says your comment was accepted or has been placed in moderation. However, there’s no life there. We try to use our Thanks For Commenting page to keep the relationship going. We thank people for spending their time with us, encourage them to keep doing it, and we do it in a way that doesn’t make them (or us) feel slimy. The page is written to be personable and make people feel like we’re reaching out as friends. I can tell you the response has been more powerful than I ever would have imagined.

The page surprises people. And they really like it.

People like small surprises. They like it when you do the little things that show you’re paying attention and that you care. Surprise your audience by appearing where they wouldn’t expect you, making the little things big, and going further than your business has to. Our personalized Thanks for Commenting page is just one way that Outspoken tries to ‘shock & aw’ its audience. We’d oprah all of your cars if we could but, well, it’s just not feasible this year. Maybe in 2011.

What are you doing to shock & aw your audience? What little surprises do you lay out for people to find? What have you seen other sites do that you want to steal emulate? I’d love it if you’d share some in the comments today.

Your Comments

  • Jason Wietholter

    Sometimes the details are the toughest things to get just right, but a lot of times they are the most important. They are what set you apart from the crowd.

    One idea in particular that I have seen are very personalized email autoresponders. The architect of the order acknowledgment system took the time to re-write the template email with some very personable text. Another example would be well-designed/informative 404 pages.

    Any place you can eliminate the robotic nature of the response and develop something personal, the better.

    • Lisa Barone

      Totally agree. I’m not sure how I feel yet about personalized automated email responders. I think if you’re going to send someone an email, I’d much rather create the email from scratch. Obviously there’s a “core” message you’ll be sending, but I typically raise an eyebrow anything there’s an automated anything that gets sent out based on the completion of a certain task (ie left a comment). It’s interesting, though. And definitely, the more you can make something NOT sound like a robot wrote it, the better.

  • tara - scoutie girl

    oh my goodness! thank you! I’ve been thinking about doing this same thing. But I thought I’d have to figure out how to code the redirect myself. Of course – there’s a plugin for that!

    Thank you – I think it’s such a great idea. Yes, it’s warm and inviting and it allows me to concentrate on providing a platform for discussion and then rewarding those who engage me.

    Brilliant. Thank you.

    • Lisa Barone

      Glad you found it useful. Isn’t it nice that almost every time you think you have to build something you find out someone else already has? :)

  • Chris Jordan

    I had to comment, to check out this page :)

  • Kristin

    Thanks for the info about the plugin! I wondered how you guys had set that up. I think it’s a great addition to any blog!

  • Alan Bleiweiss

    Either I’ve seen your thanks page so many times I don’t recall seeing it, or it only comes up the first time you comment, or more likely, you intentionally wrote an “if Alan, skip the thanks” script :-) LOL

    Seriously I like the concept though. Personally, I do my best, as you do, to engage people who comment – actually reply with something intelligent – because I think that doesn’t happen often enough as I go about my effort to comment around the web. Of course there are infinite challenges to it, most especially not wanting to force a reply, not being able to reply to every single comment…

    Here’s one that this article caused me to come up with just now – What about the concept of awarding someone some sort of fun prize, but not telling people in advance you’re going to do that? I’m gonna have to consider doing it because it would be a great way to say thanks and may even generate some buzz…

    • Lisa Barone

      Oh, maybe I should have been more clear. The Thanks For Commenting page ONLY comes up the first time you comment/register a new email address. It’s a little welcome mat. You won’t see it every time you leave a comment.

      As for the prize idea – it can work. I’d be a little worried that, as people find out about it, they’ll take to commenting just so they could possibly win a prize. I do on occasional send emails to thank people for commenting or for bringing a different side of the conversation. I prefer doing that over blog door prizes. :) But It could definitely work for the right blog.

  • Gabriele Maidecchi

    Haha when I read the title of this post I was like “wow that’s exactly what I commented about the other day”, and there I am :p
    Kudos to you, I gotta repeat myself, very nice idea! Every step to drag your users closer to your human side is the best way to get a meaningful user base.

  • Elmer Boutin

    Thanks for passing along the tip on that plug in. This is a great idea.

  • Patty K

    Thanks for the plugin info! I too was pleasantly surprised by the comment thank you page…it’s an awesome idea.

  • Matthias Hager

    I think your site was one of the first places I noticed the “Thank you for commenting” page. I’ve seen it a few other places since. It’s a great way to improve customer retention, kind of like giving a welcome package or free t shirt the first time a customer walks in your actual office.

    Taking that wow factor further, I’ve seen Blekko doing a great job of this recently. They will occasionally toss a free t shirt to someone who mentions them on Twitter. SEOmoz did it during a recent webinar. An audience member gave them a great suggestion for their new web app, and they responded by sending him a free month of pro membership.

    It’s a great way to generate a little buzz and make for satisfied customers.

  • Derek

    Am I leaving a comment just to test out the thanks for commenting page? Yep! Thanks for pointing me towards this plugin Lisa! I’ve been looking for something like this for a while (obviously not actively looking).

  • Ludy Amano

    Wanna test the thanks for commenting page ;-)

  • Rebecca

    I remember the page and being surprised by it. But I never connected the fact that after that page I made sure to come back to your site again and again. I just chocked it up to quality content. Now looking back, I wonder if I had some warm fuzzies that I didn’t really realize.

    It’s a great idea, and I like the concept of surprising your readers. Now I can put my mind toward coming up with something surprising and unique. I’ll report back in a year when I’ve thought of it.

    Thanks again.

  • Caron Mosey

    Thanks for all you do for your readers. I’ve learned so much from you!

  • Donovan Owens

    I love this post and the thought of the comment thank you page. I’m jumping on that right now. Thank you for the great information.

  • Corey

    Okay, this post definitely intrigued me into posting a comment! Dang it….no more lurking for me!

    Thanks for all you do on this blog, Lisa. I look forward to every post.

  • Lori

    Oh! So psyched to have that plugin, I loved the comment thanks as well — especially because I do hesitate often before commenting on a new blog/community – the warm and genuine thanks felt so inclusive and welcoming.

  • @TheGirlPie

    Ooh! Had to click right through from your
    feed to say: isn’t it cool when sharing
    outta-the-blue-delight ripples out so other
    kids do it, too? Thanks for another swell post ~ !

  • Mary E. Ulrich

    Okay, Lisa–you got my interest. Now I have to check out your response. What a great idea to get the conversation going.

  • Roger Lear

    Hi Lisa – great post. Three things come to mind …

    1. Congrats on making this explicit. It’s the kind of thing that a lot of people take for granted, but that others won’t see unless it’s pointed out to them. (Even then, some may still not get it !)

    2. Thanks for the steer on the plug-in. (It seems like there truly is a plug-in for everything !)

    3. After learning that there was such a mechanism, of course I just had to comment to see what happens when I leave a comment !


  • Joost de Valk

    Ok Lisa, so you did a far better job of explaining what the plugin does than I do on the plugin page :) I’m going to have to go back and write a proper explanation, or maybe there is a certain someone who’d want to do that for me? :)

  • deniseschlez

    now, i had to leave a comment to see your page, great post, I love the way you write.

  • Ms. J

    First time on your site and this is where I land. Thank you!

  • Kristi

    Thank you! I started a new job last week so it was nice to have this reminder of what plugin to go install for the new blog I’m setting up. :) Always appreciate the good tips.

  • Dan M

    The thanks-for-commenting page was actually what pushed me to finally subscribe to the blog. It’s a really smart idea, especially since your blog probably gets a lot of through-traffic from sources like Google or Twitter (which is how I found it).

    Anyway, something I do every now and then to shock and aw is post an update on Friday. Normally my blog only updates on Monday, but if I have something silly/funny to share that wouldn’t normally make it into a full post, I’ll make a super-short post about it on a Friday. This sort of break in the routine usually gets a few laughs and occasionally a better response than my “real” posts.

    At the risk of sounding a bit spammy, today is one of those Fridays, featuring a ridiculous picture of me from a recent trip to Las Vegas. So if you need a quick pick-me-up, here it is:

  • Christy

    i can’t wait to see the thanks for commenting page

  • JuliePower

    hi Lisa, been a follower of you for ages on Twitter and have heard you speak, and be admired by others, at trades shows. Well deserved admiration.

    I love this idea … and am making this comment because:
    a. want to see it myself
    b. am hoping you don’t mind if I write about it for my day job .. editing a print publication about marketing (a few still exist on paper) as a great example of how to surprise and amaze customers.

  • Travis Robertson

    This is a great reminder to always look for ways to WOW the community. Sure, I’m going to have to check out this plugin.

    However, there’s always more that we can do to really deliver that shock and awe experience. Many thanks on the great post!

  • Marion Ryan

    Lisa, thanks for sharing your ‘new comment’ page, it’s always nice to see someone who’s taken a bit of extra time over this sort of detail, that’s what makes you memorable.

    I was impressed enough to want to subscribe by email to your feed but the ’email subscribe’ link in the sidebar is taking me to a 404. The RSS reader is working fine though. Might just be my computer not playing ball with you but thought I’d mention it in case it needs a fix.


  • Lindsey (aka modchik)

    check it out for myself I would like to see a screen shot but there isn’t one on the plug-ins site.

  • Moe

    Just wanna see thanks for commenting. Great job!

  • Beth Agnew (@Professorsan)

    Such a great idea, thanks! As they say, God is in the details. When you treat every interaction with your followers, customers, visitors as a chance to engage them more, you are building valuable relationships that can pay off in unexpected ways. I really appreciate all your posts — always something valuable.

  • Henning

    Awesome idea that came on my radar by Chris Garrett and his Authority Blogging webinars.

  • Anne

    I also had to comment to check this out! it’s a really nice idea :O)

  • Melissa

    just stood up my blog 3 months ago and I continue to learn new things every day. thanks for the great idea, can’t wait to implement

  • Isaac

    I just want to see this commenting page example.

  • Achisto

    Great article and thanks for the Link to the Plugin. And to be honest I’m a little bit curious to see the Plugin “in action” ;)

  • Julian Fernandes

    I just came to see how the thanks page looks like. Awesome article i must say and it seems like an awesome plugin.

    But i do have a question: Does it work with comment systems like Intense Debate, Facebook Comments and Disqus?

  • Jeff Witt

    Two things:
    1. I want to see your thank you page. :)
    2. I like your angle on surprising (pleasantly surprising) your visitors.

    Hope you don’t mind, but I’m going to “emulate” this.

  • Roxanne

    Hey! Thanks for this tip! I’ve just added this to my blog and I’m waiting for the positive results!


  • ReXTaN

    I want to see your thank you page. :)

  • Ally @ Om Nom

    I had to comment, because I want to see the splash page!

  • chris

    “It’s the little things.” Doesn’t seem to matter if it’s in a relationship, a business partnership or reeling in an audience. All good points, Lisa. I’m glad to have stumbled on Outspoken from Yoast’s site. Challenging myself to keep things fresh and fun is always a fun experience. This will surely add to it!

  • Lemich

    It’s a very good idea !

  • DesertSounds

    Im just curious to see this thank you page.

  • Anthony Myers

    Awesome, I just installed the plugin on my site. I’m loving it already.

  • Sally_Oh

    Thank you for the article and for sharing your success with the plug-in! Can’t wait to see it ♥

  • Michael

    Love this idea. I want to check out your thank you page!

  • Paul

    Thank you for these tips relevant and motivating!

  • Marilyn Kay

    Just have to try out this plugin. Thanks for the “aw” and telling use about the awesome plugin, Lisa.

  • Paul Whelan

    Oftentimes, a prospect can become a customer because of one small detail that made YOU different from your competition.

  • Maria

    Commenting to see it in action…:D

  • Mark

    Thanks Lisa! I just downloaded the plug-in. I am anxious to see the feedback from commenters. Curious if I get the same level of “shock and awe” as you have received.

  • Seth

    What a cool idea! Wasn’t familiar with that plugin but will definitely check it out.